Srila Prabhupad has stipulated Four
Fegulative Principles! H.H.Bakthi Vikas Swami Maharaj gives them like
this: "Anyone serious about progressing in Krishna Consciousness must
try to avoid the following sinful activities: 1.Eating meat, fish or
eggs
2.Gambling
3.Use of intoxicants
4.Illicit Sexual Activities!
If
we follow Krishna Bhakthi with these prohibited actions, it won’t give
expected results!"
Why these regulations? "Whatever, I do, let it be! my love on Krishna is true!
Won’t he accept it?" Yes! He will accept it, but, not immediately! He
will do an important thing first! He will wait & see whether you
correct those sinful activities on your own! If not, He will give you so
many experiences that will show you that these activities are not good
for spritual development!
Thus, by giving tests, he will make
you skip them in due ourse of time! You will skip them one fine day!
Yes, it will happen! Once He finds that you are pure, He will embrace
you as closely as possible! He accepts you as a pure devotee! That is
why, devotees initially get so many problems! They cry: "Oh Krishna, why
do U test yr devotee this much?". They don’t know, Krishna is
mercifully cleansing them!
After mercifully cleaning your all
past & present sins by giving problems, Krishna takes us back to
him! He never allows us on earth again! He engages us in His service
eternally! O.K! "Why many of those who are not
Krishna devotees live happily?". Answer is: They are under maya. Maya
gives them pleasure to engage them always in the material world. Why she
does so?
By giving pleasures/ comforts, she
makes these innocent people think that they R happy! They feel happy
today with a machine today, but disappointed tommorrow when it becomes
faulty! They say when they get a lottery prize of 5 lakhs today, but
feel upset when they lose 10 lakhs for heart surgery! They feel joy on
getting Miss Universe as wife, but feels when she gets old & her
skin becomes shrunk!
They R happy when they constructed a
bungalow for his 6 feet body! He feels when he is at the last moments of
death: "Oh, till date, I was here! How can I leave this house, wife, my
loving son/daughter? What they will do if I leave? Oh, I can not see
them never hereafter! How lovely my wife spoke so far? How sweetly my
son kissed me? I have wasted the whole life. I want to live, but Yama is
waiting to take me!"
His conscience now speaks: "Hey
fool, What is the use if you cry at the time of death? Why did you fall
prey to the colours of maya? How many devotees called you to come to
temple with them? Did you go? Why? You thought that they are fools &
going to temples! You insulted them that they do not know how to enjoy
this world & They are negative minded persons! You didn’t donate
even a single pie to them!"
Your conscience further asks you:
"What happened now! They are happily ready to go out of this world!
Because they are going to Krishna Loka! To enjoy the closest association
of Krishna! They sacrificed the material comforta when you enjoyed
them! So, they go to Krishna! You? Now, fear to go to yama &
punishmants he is going to give for all yr sense enjoyments without
caring the owner of them, Krishna!"
His conscience adds: "How many hours
you wasted in sleeping, matting, earning excessively & spoiling the
lives of others? Now, the time has come to answer them! Start, Go with
the messengers of Yama! All you earned so far will not come with you,
excep your sins!" Hearing the voice of his conscience, that man, unable
to do anything to prevent Yama, he loses his eyes! What to do to avoid
this situation?
To avoid going with yama & face
punishments & go with Vishnu Dhoothas, we should cleanse ourselves
on our own, sacrifice excessive sense gratifications, follow Krishna
Consciousness seriously & happily go back to Godhead, Krishna! I
write about these Four Regulative Principles for 3-4 days that will
answer your doubts on which are allowed & which are prohibitted in
Sastras, under these 4 heads!
As there is no use in realising them
at the time of death, A man should adopt them from now! If we follow
these regulative principles sincerely, we can follow Krishna
Consciousness without difficulties compared to with others! We can not
ride on two horses at a time! So, Let us ride on a single horse that
takes us to Krishna: "Krishna Consciousness".
Every living being is expected to live as
per the arrangements by Krishna for them! Many people who advocate
Non-Vegetarianism say that if we don’t eat animals, the cycle of the Men
& Animals will be affected as the number of animals will become
more! Childish! Krishna is more brilliant than us! He has created wild
animals for this purpose! They will maintain the population of animals!
So, it is just a self authorisation!
In Krishna’s creations, every animal
eats only what it is expected to eat! Tigers never eat grass! A cow
never eats a goat/ dog! Man? He eats everything he sees! He eats all
animals, all birds, snakes, even toasted ants & cockroaches! He
never allows others free! He needs change in everything! He does not
bother about rules of God! He must be satisfied. Thats all! Krishna has
given variety of tasty vegetables for him!
The non-vegetarian foods are rich in
Cholesterol & they increase Rajo Guna! These cholesterol causes
heart attacks & many disorders! So, A devotee should avoid them!
These non-veg foods increase Sexual desires & anger, both creating
problems in life! You might have seen that most of the vegetarians are
satviks, ie, they lead a peaceful life! They don’t stand first in
creating problems! They R mostly graceful!
If you see what happens in the
slaughter shops, you won’t eat non-veg items! The animal is silently
eating the grass without knowing that it is going to be killed next,
after the existing stocks are exhausted! When its stomach is full, the
slaughter man takes it & kills it when it cries without being
protected by every one! The man then cuts it into pieces & give it
to us! They are very weak in front of us! So, they die!
Krishna has given us Sixth
Sense, so, we develop protection mechanism for us & protect
ourselves from those animals that are stronger than us! But, these
weaker animals die as they can not develop mechanisms to protect
themselves! So, just because they are weaker than us, we should not kill
them! Sastras allow us to kill an animal only if they are dangers to
our life! Eg: Snakes! Allow silent animals to live freely!
You may ask, You advice us to avoid
eating flesh, OK! But, what about eggs? Many say Eggs are vegetarians!
But, Srila Prabhupad has said: "Sastras say, we should avoid eggs as
unfertilised eggs are considered as the menstration of the hen!".
H.H.Bhakthi Vikas Swami Maharaj
Says: "These foods are saturated with the modes of passion &
ignorance & so, can not be offered to God"
So,
friends, anyway, better we avoid these Non-vegetarian foods &
improve in Krishna Consciousness fast! Because, Krishna says in Gita to
offer vegetarian foods only, not meat! Krishna says in Bhagavad Gita
(9-26): "If One offers Me with Love and Devotion, a leaf, a flower, a
fruit or water, I will accept it!". As Krishna Prefers Vegetarian foods,
we also should eat vegetarian foods!
I tell you friends, if anyone continues to
eat Non-Vegetarian foods after reading these posts by me, I pray to
Krishna to show extra mercy to him! I have one more point in this topic!
Many of you ask: "Is it not sinful when we kill plants?" I have answer
for that also! Because, I also asked 100s of Qns when I was 10-12 yrs
old
Is Killing Plants sinful? Yes! But,
as Krishna says us to kill, it is sinless! How? Arjuna killed relatives
& friends & gurus in battle field as Kshatria, because, Krishna
told to kill them as it is Kshatria Dharma! As Krishna has said, He
likes vegetarian foods, you can kill them! No sin will be there! See,
Most of the plants do not die if we pluck vegetables from them! They
continue to live, except a few varieties!
Next Regulation is ‘Gambling’! What is
gambling? My simplified definition for gambling is! "Whichever game/
profession that takes the money of others as a whole and gives them to a
single person wthout the mental/ physical hard work of that person". I
think, no body in the spritual world can refute this new born
definition! Why I say so? Krishna expects us to work! Not to sit idle
& earn without hard work!
Lord Krishna says in Gita (3-30): "Do yr
assigned duties (i) Surrendering all yr works unto Me, )ii)with full
knowledge of Me, (iii)without desires of profit, (iv)with no claims of
propritoriship, and (v) free from lethargy!" What this means? We should
do the assigned duties for us! THAT MEANS, WE SHOULD NOT DO OTHER
PROHIBITED DUTIES TO EARN! What are assigned duties? I have a simple
definition!
Druggists supply drugs & earn! Farmers
supply food for us & earn! Dhoodhwala(Milkmen) gives milk &
earn! Many are serving the govt to maintain the country & earn!
Thus, any job/business that is helpful others & you R naturally
interested (Not by the compulsion) is considered as Assigned dutiy!
Krishna supports such Karma Yogis who are doing assigned duties! These
people have no barrier in Krishna Consciousness!
(v) Real Estate if you sell the price of the land beyond the guideline value of the govt). However, Share Market & Real Estate businesses have become popular now, as this is kali Yug! People creates layouts on the land owned by Krishna, and claim that they are the owners! They fix rates whatever they want! They manipulate Krishna’s Property uncontrollably and hence most of the poor remain on platforms!
H.H.Bhakthi Vikas Swami Maharaj says:
"Gambling puts one into anxiety & fuels greed, envy & anger!
Devotees should avoid T.V, Films, Sports, Useless Songs, etc" So, when
there R hundreds of options for earning in permissible professions, why
should we go to gambling/ Speculations that disappoint others? DO ANY
PROFESSION THAT MAKES OTHERS LIVE & HAPPY, NOT THAT SPOILS OTHERS!
Next Regulation: "Intoxication!"
What is intoxication? My simple definition: "Anything that induces you
to use it again & again & makes your mood/ mind/ body tensioned
if you don’t take them! You become dependent on them! They brings you
totally under their control! If you don’t get them at a particular day/
time, your character will show total deviation from the normal
character! They R representatives of maya! "
What are the items that cause
intoxication? H.H.Bhakthi Vikas Swami has listed so many things here:
"Alcohol in any form (Some will tell you that beer & wine are good!
Remember, they also have alcohol), Pan Masala, Betelnuts, tobaco (both
chewing & smoking), LSD, Marijuana, Abin, Arrack, Coffee & Tea,
and the cool drinks that contain coffeine! Chocolates also contain
coffeine 7 other intoxicating agents!"
How, these intoxicants affect the Krishna Consciousness? Actually, all the nerves of our body are controlled by a spot in our brain called CNS, ie, Central Nervous System! Only till this CNS is healthy, whole nervous systems will be normal! If this CNS becomes affected, the man becomes always lazy, tired and inactive! Thus, Next to heart, this CNS in brain is an important part that controls our body system!
When we consume the additive products as I
mentioned yesterday like alcohol or arrack or tobacco or coffee or tea
or cool drinks, etc, this CNS is induced immediately & the body
becomes brisk! This sudden increase in the activity of CNS is followed
by sudden fall in its activity! This sudden rise & fall of CNS
activity makes the CNS inactive permanently! Let me beautifully compare
this effect with a rubber band!
This is called NERVE WEAKNESS! If you
continuously use these additive products, your nerves become weakened!
You would have felt that you will be brisk immediately after consuming
these products, but after some time suuden fall in your briskness! So,
these products give you only temporary refreshment, and make your nerves
permanently disabled! What are the effects of this nerve weakness in
your life?
7.Nicotine causes breathing disorders, cancer, heart attack, Sexual impotency! 8.Smoking causes bad breath & hence, wife & children hesitate to go close to that person! 9.As he always feel temptation to smoke, he misses many deadlines of important assignments! So, success delayed / lost! 10.Alcohol makes you totally forget yourself & hence whatever you do after consuming it, can not be remembered later!
11. This costs yr image! Many people sacrifice their dresses & walk casually after consuming alcohol that is seen by all his surroundings! How the society will respect him & his wife? His wife & girl children become the victims of the anti-social elements, without their fault, just because of marrying that person! Thus, alcohol makes one lose his family itself & its dignity! He loses due respect in society! Innocently his family too!
How they affect Krishna Consciousness? As these people are always confused in everything, whether it is family or job or business or sexual life, they maintain the same confused state of mind in their spritual practice also! He can’t mingle freely with other devotees as he will fear whether the smoke/ alcohol smell will expose himself! He can’t attend a temple function for 2 hrs as he needs cigarrette every 30 minutes!
A smoke/ alcohol/ drug addict always
thinks negatively! He never gets an attachment in the regular activities
in a society! He is going on a separate/ peculiar track! he never care
if there is no money for cooking that day! He needs a cigarrette then!
Thats all! If he has no money, he takes the jewels of his wife, pledge
them & smoke/ drink! He never cares whether it is dharma or not! He
needs his sense gratification!
How
such a person can concentrate in Krishna Consciousness? Is there any
way? Yes! If a smoke/ alcohol/ drug addict gets the association of pure
vaishnavas, with the power of that purity, he will correct himself
gradually & become a perfect person! So, an addict need not skip
Krishna Consciousness! If he truly likes to lead a pure life, he can
come to Krishna Consciousness & purify himself! Is it Possible? How?
Srila Prabhupad achieved it! When he
went to U.S with just Rs.40/ - for establishing Krishna Consciousness
there, he stayed in an area that had full of drug addicts! He called all
of them, offered Krishna Prashad, Educated Gita & Krishna to them
& made them pure devotees in a few months! The purity & good
intentions of a vaishnava can achieve it! Even we have an example for
this possibility!
Today we should see another sensitive topic "Illicit Sexual Relations". Actually this is not a bad word to discuss, as it will help to watch our children & develop them accordingly! I will define Illicit Sexual relations simply as "Any sexual contact or just thoughts with/ about the persons other than our husband/ wife". Clear? Simple! I like to add more: "Any Sexual Relations with the opposite sex before marriage!"
O.K, Why these people go for extra sexual activities? Our sastras has given clearl green signal to marry a boy/ girl! No barrier for a legal marriage! Krishna prepares a girl in the age of 14-15 for sexual contacts & a boy at about 16-17! However, as they will not be mentally matured to face marriage relations, we should allow upto the age of 20. A girl or boy can marry at anytime around the age of 20!
They should concentrate in studies & career till that age! The problem is, all thoughts about opposite sex come only in these critical ages! They develop colourful thoughts about his/ her would be! A boy / girl imagine their future husband/ wife like a latest cute hero/ heroine! They forget that every man/ woman has only decorated flesh! If a popular cine actor/ actress does not bath for 2 days, no one can go near him/ her!
They find all girls/ boys going past him/ her beautiful in that age! They like to love everyone of them! But, they find it impossible! One day, they get a groom/ bride & marry! They imagine that her/ his husband/ wife will speak/ behave like her/ his favourite hero/ heroine! They forget that every one in this world is different in character! No two persons are alike! They later conclude that their imaginations are wrong!
Everything goes well for a few months! Both
of them come to normal life of problems! They involve themselves in
problems of life! Most of the boys/ girls accept the life that they got
as the result of karma & lead a peaceful life, of course with small
problems! In a minimum percentage of couples, out of two persons one
needs the company of his/ her wife/ husband for more time! Why they
think so? Reasons are there!
These special persons who has extra sexual
desires by birth, fall into Illicit Sexual activities if they get an
opportunity! Now-a-days, the world has become very uncontrolled! This
uncontrolled freedom for both men & women gives some of them courage
to deviate from normal life! After coming a round of uncontrolled
sexual life, they learn later that there is nothing in Sexual life &
they will never be satisfied!
What is the speciality in these special relations? Nothing except addition of psychological diseases! In many cases, physical diseases too! Human tendency is like that ! They have a good T.V in their house, but feels that the neighbour’s T.V is better than that of him! Their wife cook tasty foods, but they say that the food of a hotel is better than hers! Their son/ daughter are gems, but they find the wards of their neighbour better!
For some men & women, plucking the flowers from the garden of their neighbour is a thrilling experience, though they have many colourful flowers in their garden! So, for all these sexual deviations, the reason is: It is thrilling to enjoy others’ property than that of ours! These people speak attractively & attract those who are tired of their family problems! Many escape, but some fall prey to their colourful words!
Later, they lose their own wife/ husband because of this character and come to the roadside! They stare to spoil the common public! Got arrested! Go to jails! This is the result of Illicit Sexual Relations! O.K, Why some of the youth go foe Pre-marrital Sexual contacts? First, they get girls/ boys easily as both are coming to study/ job! Some of them feel that there is nothing thrilling in the Sex with the spouse as it is legal!
So, these people R thrilled in illegal actions! They feel it conservative if we follow rules! This is the pathetic situation of this society! This is the growing trend of Kali Yug! O.K, How to prevent these immorality in a society? First, we should see Krishna in every living being & love that person as Krishna is in her/ his heart! We should consider that the Athma is the real living being & others are only flesh!
They should realise that sex is just a five to ten minutes pleasure & it leads to bondage with the opposite sex! If you touch a girl/ boy, you are bound to her/ him & you lose your peace! Another thing is: All men & women in this world are anatomically the similar & nothing is special to a certain person! None of his/ her organs are golden! Everything is made up of flesh that smells bad if you don’t take bath for 2 days!
The same flesh will be totally contaminated once a person leaves his/ her body! Then that person is called "It", not "he", "She". Ants & small species come readily & start eating our body! Even our wife/ husband will tell others to dispose that "body" as soon as possible, as it starts badly smelling! So, why should a person wander for these fleshy bodies? Why can’t he/ she be satisfied with his/ her wife/ husband?
Why don’t they realise that Sexual desire
can never be satisfied till he/ she dies? So, a person should love his
family as it is the gift given by Krishna exclusively to him/ her!
Deviations may be colourful/ thrilling, but he/ she will definitely
realise one fine day (after losing his fame) that he/ she could have
lived still a decent life! So, the husband & wife together should
lead a Krishna Conscious family & be an example to the world!
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